29 Dec

So I was thinking, how bad would it be if I had a back-up guy. You know, that guy who is like your best friend and knows stuff about you. You don’t really have feelings for him or maybe you do (subtly) but what’s important is that you have chemistry between you. Let me elaborate, this is that guy you have ever dreamt of kissing at the least. You may have pictured him as being more than a friend even once. We could strike an agreement and promise to get married to each other if we were not married by the time we get to 30. Wouldn’t it be nice to have that!

I have such a guy but how to get him to propose,..hmmm! It has to be his idea of course.




  1. Colin December 30, 2009 at 10:29 am #

    oooohhhh, wat nice lukewarm sentiments. he’s a lucky guy, that one 🙂
    related: sure you don’t want to raise that bar to 45? 30 sounds awfully early to settle

    • lilburdy December 30, 2009 at 2:54 pm #

      For a guy that’s too early I guess but for a lady its when the sirens go off. Thanks for reading:-)

  2. colouredinsepia December 31, 2009 at 8:27 am #

    Lol!!I get my best ideas from blogs..hee hee. I like the sound of this alot!!! i too have that friend but there is no chemistry so to speak but he cares about me soo much and I him…..Il have to think long and hard on this one..but its true-cant hurt to have a plan B 🙂

  3. wamathai January 4, 2010 at 1:54 pm #

    I am somebody’s plan B but in the baby department (we talked about it and i said yes) so i get the concept. I agree with Colin that 30 is a bit early.

    • lilburdy January 5, 2010 at 1:30 pm #

      Unfortunately I realised most men are someone’s plan B so I may just have to stick with plan A anyway

      • Wamathai January 17, 2010 at 10:44 pm #

        Well don’t give up just yet. Most men are someone’s plan B but not all of them.
        Plan A is always the best.

  4. Wyndago January 8, 2010 at 7:02 pm #

    I can’t believe this! Shocked even more by wamathai’s comment! Are we living on the same planet?

    • lilburdy January 11, 2010 at 9:03 pm #

      what’s thw shocker Wyndago? You don’t agree?

    • Wamathai January 17, 2010 at 10:45 pm #

      @Wyndago: Why is my comment surprising?

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